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Hello, Grizzli, you wrote: G> in  also it is not becomes easier than months. More likely, in  years, to years there to three approximately. And, at level of a vegetable marrow at me feelings to this being generally practically were not, which as that there would compensate cries. Here when at it the person and brains hatched, approximately around 2.5 years - then yes, feelings appeared. Yes it is fine, the person already in one and a half year it is visible Also brains it is already visible that work. Truth still syllables speaks and it is necessary to guess, it yes.

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Hello, Vetal_ca, you wrote: V _> the Wife correct and, the main thing, sensible and sharp is necessary, it is the major . Healthy  it is desirable

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Hello, Grizzli, you wrote: G> And I and with the first especially was not nervous from shouts. I from neighbors started to be nervous, which were nervous from its cries. I write - at some instant militia even reached. And could and in guardianship a tax that checked up a family, "and that that it there at them shouts, at us that did not shout never". At us the second child a daughter. After a year ears went to prick. As it shouted... And not when pricked - there time, and all - the earring in an ear and when beforehand put points on ears - that was then easier to aim and ear rings equally laid down. The daughter when strangers climb to her in personal space easier does not love. As pierced, at once as quitted a room - at once calmed down.  on piercing of ears it is visible that strongly worried. And home came, I speak to the wife - well , you worried, when it shouted? It - I is not present, it always so shouts. I - and I was not present

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Hello, Dead Down, you wrote: > I.e. on itself it is necessary to spit ? > And then, breed poverty, walk rags... Cultivation of children is the hardest work, and very responsible. I do not have children and think will not be, but I perfectly understand it. But ruling elite instead of facilitating this process, they on the former impose traditional family values. However, at children of ruling elite is both wet nurses, and governesses, both personal doctors, and personal teachers and the horse-radish knows who. So they in some measure use professionals. Services of professionals for cattle possess extremely poor quality. In a day nursery and kindergartens at children scoff, offend, beat, anchor to beds paste mouths an adhesive tape and force to eat their own . Quality of a supply frequently disgusting, is engaged nobody in children, teachers quite often aggressive  from a province without the formation, getting beggarly wages so hating all this world and in particular another's children. I do not speak about children's homes where children develop with lag in some years, generally are deprived of civil rights also them just on organs do not sell (though I will not be surprised also such). Here also it turns out that traditional, absolutely crude and nonprofessional method of cultivation of children - casual as a matter of fact people who have in it no any knowledge, experience, and frequently and desires - remains to the best. Therefore all again rests that is written at me to signatures.

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Hello, Grizzli, you wrote: G> And I and with the first especially was not nervous from shouts. I from neighbors started to be nervous, which were nervous from its cries. I write - at some instant militia even reached. And could and in guardianship a tax that checked up a family, "and that that it there at them shouts, at us that did not shout never". I will understand Nothing. You write about a hell, but were thus quiet and were not nervous? Here to you

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Hello, De-Bill, you wrote: DB> And  then generally to marry or live together if not to get children? It is possible to meet simply. To live together is the wife means also meal will prepare, at least. And if simply to meet somewhere on the side - that I go or itself or to buy the ready. Or you mean to live together without design documentary? To me on documents generally it is violet, I consider this question unimportant.

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Hello, anonymous, you wrote: A> That is you spend residuals of forces not for operation and that everyone  and to "Politician" every day ,  result of what the head at you does not cook? Yes, on operation all the same does not suffice. Can unless small to make for itself. To answer questions in it is possible also a bad head.

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Hello, meadow_meal, you wrote: _> Is mandatory change a small bottle. The child is lazy, if accustom to a convenient small bottle which can be sucked without efforts, it and will row, receiving a boob which it is necessary . Perhaps therefore feeding also occupies from you for 40 minutes. There is such bottle, was complete with elektro-doilkoj Medela.

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Hello, Glory, you wrote: you did not try to make the hermetic soundproof container for? And to feed under the schedule. Thought of it. Probably is easier sound insulation on a door to add. Besides long to shout it it is impossible, write that the hernia can be formed.

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Hello, Grizzli, you wrote: G> For children too it is not necessary to marry. It is necessary to marry if the wife - the equivalent partner and it is necessary to fix legally it in respect of possession of property. Heard earlier that did not make out spoilage on purpose to receive more manual - as mother a singleton. I do not know, whether it is actual now since copecks pay.

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Hello, Nuzhny, you wrote: N> I will understand Nothing. You write about a hell, but were thus quiet and were not nervous? N> here to you a hell - a way of life. To be nervous are local displays of discontent if you want. If living in a hell all time to be nervous - you will become crazy, the irritation collects naturally because  it all is not necessary, but it does not mean that you all time for nerves are direct.

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Hello, sambl4, you wrote: S> Yes it is fine, the person already in one and a half year it is visible Also brains it is already visible that work. Truth still syllables speaks and it is necessary to guess, it yes.  that there is visible, so,  strongly primitive. I started talking exactly in 3.

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Hello, Vetal_ca, you wrote: V _> the Army on 1-3 orders is more difficult, do not mislead people. And it depends on what child, and what army. Clearly that army  90, with sergeants-dagami which to you undercollars the Finn walk also check a collar unbending - worse the average child. But the child permanently shouting, moreover and with illnesses with what strongly is worse than normal year in army where is not present , but there are many normal trainings (instead of a parade-ground to sweep) on an army speciality.

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Hello, Shmj, you wrote: S> As you survived after a birth of the child? Slept with the wife in one room or you separately and it with the child separately? Whether It was possible to get enough sleep? By the way, it is possible the baby to itself in a bed to suppose. To sleep it especially does not hinder, while itself sleeps, and generally cool enough. Falls asleep, by the way, near to  faster. If he thus also is able to eat from a boob, it is not necessary to run anywhere, and the wife can feed him, up to the end without waking up. S> and that I already about a month plainly do not sleep, since shout is audible through all doors. It is necessary to feed time at 3 o'clock approximately and each time it is accompanied by shout. Grandmothers nearby are not present. Earlier the wife herself tried consults, while blood from a nose did not go from a constant sleep debt, now I was connected. I not always could fall asleep earlier at once. And as the baby arose, always quickly I fall asleep also anything to sleep does not hinder. S> a month transited and even hardly more - and it becomes easier not. Forces it is necessary only on to attempt and  on sites. To work forces does not remain - the head does not cook, I walk in a state of the zombie. It somewhere on half a year-year. If dare to give birth to the second, with the second it will be easier. S> it can in an ideal and it is easier, but after all in life anything ideal does not happen. From a boob he not so likes to drink, prefers from a small bottle, a rack not to put efforts (read responses are not a rarity). 90 % of problems of chest feeding are in a head at parents. I on the contrary, from a bottle did not love. S> after feeding it needs to be held, that there was an eructation, to change pampers and . Yes it is possible and not to hold. We with the first too that only did not do. And when the second arose, on nonsense already forces did not suffice. It appeared and to the best.

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Hello, anonymouse2, you wrote: A> But ruling elite instead of facilitating this process, they on the former impose traditional family values. Well generally speaking, traditional values very much even facilitate manufacture of children. The child on the wife, you does not gleam, you thus live with parents, grandmas actively in care of children . At traditional families just it is a lot of children. A> Services of professionals for cattle possess extremely poor quality. In a day nursery and kindergartens at children scoff, offend, beat, anchor to beds paste mouths an adhesive tape and force to eat their own . Quality of a supply frequently disgusting, is engaged nobody in children, teachers quite often aggressive  from a province without the formation, getting beggarly wages so hating all this world and in particular another's children. In what   the impression can indeed, in Moscow opposite at me from a garden. You that to beat the child? Children in a garden can already tell all, and now in a society with physical violence is very strict - two tutors dismiss on time. Also pay in it normally. A> here also it turns out that traditional, absolutely crude and nonprofessional method of cultivation of children - casual as a matter of fact people who have in it no any knowledge, experience, and frequently and desires - remains to the best. It the best because parents bring up is even worse. Since tutors - they at least experts with formation, and parents it is simple the mechanic, chemists, saleswomen, programmers, etc., etc. - at all the fact that they also teachers. It simply that content of the child (it is simple at least obedience to achieve) if special  to pedagogics is not present - heavy manages, where there also to bring up it competently.

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Hello, anonymouse2, you wrote: A> Services of professionals for cattle possess extremely poor quality. In a day nursery and kindergartens at children scoff, offend, beat, anchor to beds paste mouths an adhesive tape and force to eat their own . Quality of a supply frequently disgusting, is engaged nobody in children, teachers quite often aggressive  from a province without the formation, getting beggarly wages so hating all this world and in particular another's children. It you that you think, in a free kindergarten someone the adhesive tape will buy for the money that a mouth your child to paste?

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Hello, Shmj, you wrote: S> heard Earlier that did not make out spoilage on purpose to receive more manual - as mother a singleton. I do not know, whether it is actual now since copecks pay. Everyone happens. We issued all that could, at us even social cards are.

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Hello, Evgeniy Skvortsov, you wrote: ES> My wife during feeding by a breast was on enough restricted diet, what sharp, fried, many products eliminated from a diet. ES> therefore children slept easily also a stomach did not suffer. We at the first child had gripes, about 2 weeks after a birth. The wife tried to pick up to itself any diet, but any  between eaten and gripes has not been noted. And at the second child any  was not, though the wife relaxed on this subject, and ate that wanted.

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Hello, Glory, you wrote: I am simple in the childhood did not shout, under stories of my mum. And the cat at me does not shout both a thing does not tear up, and the dog does not bark how much in vain, as at some. And  children it is simple other biological type. And whence your mum knows, you shouted or did not shout, if it held you in the soundproof container?

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Hello, Victor Ivanidze, you wrote:> I am simple in the childhood did not shout, under stories of my mum. And the cat at me does not shout both a thing does not tear up, and the dog does not bark how much in vain, as at some. VI>... And mosquitoes do not bite you - are afraid to poison. Us, by the way, ceased to bite, when children were got. Children on  to measures are much more tasty

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Hello, Nuzhny, you wrote: N> With each new child parent feelings become stronger, it at many fathers noted. Well and more easy somehow you concern to , you do not shiver over the child. Subsequent go easier in this plan. The first - yes, heavily, nerves. With the second child many things, which it was necessary to think earlier how to do, turn to a simple technical issue. For example, the child  - you put it on one hand, and another under the easel you wash away,  for 1 minute.

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Hello, anonymouse2, you wrote: A> Cultivation of children is the hardest work, and very responsible. I do not have children and think will not be, but I perfectly understand it. All is correct, and people arose excessively, 7 billion. Therefore if the stranger, on the further destiny and which attitude to spit. If he (it) voluntary refuses to get children it is not necessary to it (it) to go on brains and to dissuade

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Hello, Shmj, you wrote: S> As you survived after a birth of the child? Slept with the wife in one room or you separately and it with the child separately? Whether It was possible to get enough sleep? It is very useful to resemble courses on preparation for sorts, for fathers too happen. To us there advised an excellent piece: it is necessary to wake up by turns with the wife to the kid: one night you, another it. It is important, what exactly one night you, and another the wife, instead of on each time to alternate - so both will not get enough sleep, and so though someone one can sleep. Wake up, overturn sleepy mummy (in your case give a small bottle), put the child, wait while "falls off", shift in a bed reversely. Well and remaining preventive maintenance. At due skill anything from this does not cause any problems and difficulties. Made business - and again to sleep sluggishly and immoderately. Beauty!

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Hello, Vetal_ca, you wrote: V _> All is correct, and people arose excessively, 7 billion. You shift duties on Chineses, Hindus, Africans. Why they should for you fill the population? Yes, they are glad to try and fill an amount of the people. You even can trust that races do not exist that it has no value. But thus FOR THEM you always will be a stranger. The Chinese to the Chinese of eyes does not prick out, and here to a stranger... On it before to refer to an overpopulation - look at the schedule of growth of the population of the ethnos, whether soon you send in a reservation.

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Pzz> With the second child many things, which it was necessary to think earlier how to do, turn to a simple technical issue. For example, the child  - you put it on one hand, and another under the easel you wash away,  for 1 minute. You washed away the child? .