F> 10. Be to each other with tenderness; in respect each other notify ... F> (the Message to Romans 12:10) F> you See what relations should be between not people. Instead of to carry out a brain in the beginning of week. At you a jamb what appears both from quality of messages and from products what implement. It consists in the relation to that that is shown to people. Even if your decision working and to you personally it very much is pleasant, it was possible at least without coding loss. Then, from the technical point of view it is implemented poor. In serious development so write the code on php. It is dangerous from the point of view of breaking and the subsequent general lowering of code maintainability, and also increase of expenses for support, change and code development. When the person sees the poor-quality decision, he can experience disrespect for. Here about it you also started to butt with each other. And after all it was possible, absolutely anything, hardly to concern it more attentively. Then such trifles collect on time wide interval, they start to work gradually in the long term. As well as from the technical point of view, and in relations. Quality of that that you show to people is a sign of respect. It turns out that that you quoted that - it is necessary to apply to yourself. And you use citing for justifications. It was possible to take into consideration and to think, especially when permanently it is necessary to justify. After all when once - it is fine, randomness but when it is constant - something you do not so.